February 6, 2025

We all remember the lockdowns of 2020, but now, people are choosing isolation, just with a new name: protecting one’s inner peace. But is it really helping us, or are we just running from reality? 🤔 In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between solitude (which can be good) and self-isolation (which might be doing more harm than we think). Words matter, and how we frame our choices affects how we live. 🔍 *Here’s what we’re diving into:*

• The difference between purposeful solitude and isolation as a coping mechanism 🏡
• Why humans are meant to be relational, and how Jesus modeled this in the gospel of Luke ✝️
• The hidden dangers of isolation: media consumption, Eastern vs. Biblical meditation, and even demonic influences 👀
• The rise of the *unchurched believer*—why some Christians reject the church, and why that’s unbiblical ⛪

✨ *Key Takeaway:* True peace isn’t found in isolation—it’s found in Christ and community. We’re called to grow *together*, not apart. We can’t grow in isolation. Jesus had disciples—so why do we think we can do this alone? Let’s talk about it.

Show Notes

Summary

COVID-19 was in 2020, and we’re still dealing with the aftermath with the ever-increasing word – Isolation.

Unlike during COVID where we were forced into a lockdown, people are choosing to self-isolate, but using more friendly terms, like “protecting one’s inner peace.”

In this episode, we will analyze the difference between people’s words and behavior.  Words matter! And we will look at the difference between purposeful solitude and self-isolation as a protective coping mechanism.

Language is super important to me (and it should be to you).  God is a God of order, and Satan loves confusion.  America got rid of God for science, but now spirituality and science seem to be fusing, with the help of neuroscience.  Spiritual language is becoming “scientific”. This is important, so we’ll look at it a bit deeper.

Humans are relational beings.  Isolation is not only not ideal, it’s not how we’re supposed to live.  But Jesus came to show us the way.  So we’ll examine His life through the gospel of Luke to see the example He left for His believers to live out.

1. What are we doing in solitude?

Protecting our inner peace.  Sounds great! Except that word “protection” bothers me.  When you protect, that means there is a danger.  That means it’s a reaction.  Yes! Culturally, we are reacting to the negativity and hostility coming at us from all directions.  We need to be honest about our motives.

Happiness and love are not attained while we’re alone.  We know we need people. We just don’t know how to live with them anymore!

I talk about real solitude, because the truth is, it can be great!  Super, duper useful at times.

THIS IS THE LIE – people are acting like they’re using a great practice to better themselves, but after I go over the difference between isolation and solitude, you can make an opinion for yourself.

2. Dangerous activities when you’re alone

Some people really are isolating with the hope that they’ll grow.  Most people don’t do “absolutely nothing” when they’re alone. Unfortunately, people have become better consumers than producers.  We’re consuming a lot of media – social, TV, OnlyFans. This mindless media consumption we think doesn’t affect us, but actually greatly affects how we see the world. 

I go in-depth about Eastern vs Biblical meditation, and shadow work vs self-examination. Lastly and most importantly (in my opinion) I discuss the intentional/unintentional “opening up of ourselves” to demonic influences while alone, for spiritual enlightenment, power, or just by accident.

3. The “unchurched” believer

We’re seeing a rise in Christianity in America, but we’re also seeing too many Christians claim that they don’t need to be in a church.  That is unbiblical.  Jesus had a team of disciples, so why do we believe that we can walk the Christian faith by ourselves?  I challenge believers who criticize the hypocrites in the church to come back and build up “the bride of Christ.”

Give it a Try 💪🏽🤍

• You don’t have to just trust people, but instead of looking for the “red flags” in people, look for things to connect and engage.  Because life is better with people in it!
• If you are a believer who has left the church.  Find one preaching God’s Word.  Next, get involved! Church isn’t just for you to be fed.  We’re called to make disciples.  Join a Bible study, prayer team, ministry, and pour into others 🙏🏽

Resources

Scripture Verses

Philippians 4:8 | 2 Corinthians 11:14-15 | Genesis 3:18 | Matthew 4:1-2, 11 | Luke 22:40-46 | Galatians 6:1-2 | Ecclesiastes 4:12